Have you ever had the feeling that you’ve finally figured everything out? And then… something happens and you realize – nope. You never had it figured out in the first place. Like daycare. Daycare was a struggle. Staying on top of the fees, bringing in clothes, diapers, supplies, whatever the kids needed. You probably think I’m a big whiner when I say that, but hear me out: I was a new mommy, a single mommy, a working mommy. It was tough getting all my stuff together. I actually remember the moment when it all clicked. I was standing in the principal’s office chatting with her. I’d had kids there for maybe four years, and seen her almost every day since then. It’s like what they say about marriage, right? Sickness, health, good times, bad times, phone calls about money, phone calls about… I don’t know, other stuff. And I realized there were no outstanding bills, the kids had all they need, I knew their teacher’s names, everyone was healthy and our routine ticked like