While preparing for my dvar Torah:
"do you know how nogeiah l'maaseh para adumah was?
I'll tell you how nogeiah l'maaseh it was. As much as hilchos aveilus is nogeiah bizman hazeh...
If we will live and we will be baruch Hashem, im yirtzeh Hashem, we will chas v'shalom not die before our parents, we will all have to deal with hilchos aveilus."
This is a shiur in English, by the way. :-)))
(and a good one, at that!)