tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21153604.post6585324762963052373..comments2024-03-10T21:49:37.789-04:00Comments on Adventures in Mama-Land: KICKED OUT OF SHUL!Tziviahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11828930310967808828noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21153604.post-53141101095322441392009-09-25T14:39:00.006-04:002009-09-25T14:39:00.006-04:00We also spoke on the phone. She said she also cou...We also spoke on the phone. She said she also couldn't sleep that night, and the thought kept running through her head: "I just kicked somebody out of shul."<br />The exact words that were running through my head.<br />I feel we are, if not best friends now, highly reconciled.Tziviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828930310967808828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21153604.post-51556364780453105952009-09-25T14:38:04.380-04:002009-09-25T14:38:04.380-04:00So there is a bit of a follow-up here:
http://rony...So there is a bit of a follow-up here:<br />http://ronypony.blogspot.com/2009/09/note_22.html<br /><br />She left a note apologizing. I dropped off a copy of this blog post (slightly edited) along with a handwritten note and a honeycake, assuring her everything was completely forgiven and wishing her a year of simchas.Tziviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828930310967808828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21153604.post-80719821189374433802009-09-25T09:40:39.379-04:002009-09-25T09:40:39.379-04:00Hi Jennifer I'm new to your blog.
Sounds like ...Hi Jennifer I'm new to your blog.<br />Sounds like you have had an upseting experiance to say the least.<br /> Since I'm little I've come accross some interesting, upsetting and frustrating situations in a shul setting.<br />Its hard for some people who are dressed up to the nines and have their lives orchestrated with maids, nannies and housekeepers and older children who've learned to sit quieter then the young ones, to put themselves in your place and understand where a nursing mom with a baby is coming from. The woman that called out definately should have been asked to leave if you had to. I get emotional too when anyone does things like that . Can't understand why others are more considerate and understanding about hurting others feelings.<br /> You definately should call her on it and you should tell her that it wasn't her place to do what she did and she owes you an apology.<br /> I think it would make you feel better, I might be wrong. But, the anger sounds like its going to stay if you don't say something about it. Possibly that you don't want to be angry with her and that you feel that she was wrong.<br /> How many times I've wished I had the gumption to address others insensitive remarks or actions.<br /> Think about it, you'll decide what works best for you, Hatzlacha.<br /> and Tzom Kal.<br /> JoJonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21153604.post-26980636475912813802009-09-21T19:20:18.085-04:002009-09-21T19:20:18.085-04:00Unbelievable. Except that, of course, I believe yo...Unbelievable. Except that, of course, I believe you.<br /><br />They were "talking" about you and your baby? Saying what? That you're such a dedicated mother that you don't just pawn him off on someone else? That you're brilliant to come armed with snacks and other distractions? That it's obvious he's so happy in shul?<br /><br />I'm incensed on your behalf. I hope it occurs to her to ask your m'chilah before Yom Kippur.decemberbabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04088233282015307702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21153604.post-7068031817296696442009-09-21T18:42:46.591-04:002009-09-21T18:42:46.591-04:00Oh Jennifer, what a horrible experience! I'm s...Oh Jennifer, what a horrible experience! I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, and I definitely know how you felt. I hate those moments when I know I'm doing the right thing, and someone else acts like I'm doing something wrong, and I just feel like crap about the whole thing, even though I did nothing wrong. Its the worst experience of all. I hope you feel better tomorrow.Shirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05013432126573976670noreply@blogger.com